well, if u insist ...

this ever happen to u?

someone keeps insisting something. doesn't really matter what it is. could be a bf or gf thinkin ur keeping secrets ... a teacher who insists ur not paying attention ... a family member who is convinced ur up to something ...

doesn't matter how many times u say it isn't so. no. this person is absolutely convinced and won't shut up about it, either. go ahead and fight it -- just realize that nothin you say or do is gonna change that person's mind.

u know it, i know it ... so what happens?

in sociology they talk about self-fulfilling prophecy. yeah. its the whole "if ya gotta do the time, might as well have done the crime" thing. why do people not get this? not saying u get FORCED into doing things ... its more like ... after awhile, ya just figure geeeeesh screw it already ...

cos the suxxor thing about it is, u end up in stupid situations where yall are stuck being someone ur not, yanno? and u start wondering if it really is a crime ya didn't know about -- having friends he doesn't like, or liking stuff she doesn't care for, or things like that.

that's usually when the stuff hits the fan. its like tellin the bf "kk u really really wanna know the secret?? there IS no freakin secret!"

... and ya dump him. which probably wouldn't have happened quite so quickly if he were capable of actually listening to what u trying to say.